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When Wishes Wait Too Long

On 3rd September 2025, I was admitted to Hochtaunus clinic  due to a diverticulitis flare-up. The days here have been quiet, filled with recovery and reflection. Tomorrow, I am expected to be discharged. But what I will carry with me from this stay is not just my recovery — it is the story of the man who shared this room with me, Mr. Ben Taher . He is around 80 years old, originally from Morocco. Half a century ago, he came to Germany in search of work. He built a life here, raised five children — three sons and two daughters — all of whom are now settled and doing well in Germany. His wife, who had been his companion through all these years, passed away about a decade ago. As he spoke, I felt the weight of a life lived between responsibilities and wishes. He told me that he always wanted to return to Morocco. In the beginning, he postponed it to save money. Later, he managed to build a large house back home, but by then, his wife wanted to stay longer so their children could have ...